8/19/2019

The Laws of Attraction and the Modern Dating Scene 

A useful, although reductive, theory on attraction comes from evolutionary psychology. It holds that we are drawn to others on the basis of our assessment of their reproductive fitness. We weigh up physical qualities (symmetry, health, youth, strength in men, child-bearing indicators in women), material possessions (wealth), social skills (status, charity, humour, confidence) and cultural factors (fashion, weight, skin tone, hair styles, body decoration). We have roughly standardized perceptions of 'attractive' individuals, though it can vary over history and in different parts of the world.
 




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Touch and kiss one another at every opportunity, and this includes those non-sexual moments in time. Kissing and touching does not just have to be about foreplay before sex takes place. Smooch with each other whenever you can and make sure that your good morning and "have a good day at work" kisses are passionate and not quick and wooden such as a peck on the cheek. Pecks on the cheek are for children and not for lovers.

An excellent book that deals with attraction from an evolutionary perspective is 'The Mating Mind: How Sexual Choice Shaped the Evolution of Human Nature' by Geoffrey Miller. His hypothesis is that a lot of how we conduct our lives e.g. high status jobs, creative work, being charitable or popular for example, sends signals to attract potential partners.

Well why not make these natural signals conscious? If there is someone who has caught your eye, instead of looking away meet his gaze and hold it. Give him a smile or nod your head at him in passing. Men are so used to being rejected that these small signs that you are open to his approach will be welcomed with open arms.

Most of these signals can be used both subtly and effectively in almost any setting. Licking a dollop of whipped cream could be perfectly acceptable in a Starbucks or bookstore cafe. Playing with your hair and looking a man in the eyes would be perfectly natural as you walk out of your favorite salon.

Primal Instinct This is a very strong androstenone product. There is greater risk of overdose, so it is advised not to apply too much of this product. Very often, even one drop is too much for some men. There are two versions of this oil-based pheromone product - scented and unscented. Users should be aware that this product is not recommended for young men.

I am here to tell you that you do not have to look like a supermodel to be the most beautiful, sexy and attention getting woman in the room. How many models have you heard of that have not only gotten their man but kept them? Not many. They have the look but haven't taken the time to enhance their other assets.

Every creature on this planet gives off attraction signals. We are no exception. Some are blatant and some are unconscious. We are all born with the ability to physically attract others. Some of us have just cultivated this gift.

Dancing is very intimate, especially when your bodies are very close together. You do not have to go out for a night on the town to do this. Simply pop a CD into the player anytime, even when you are in the kitchen, living room or bedroom and then sway together, gyrate together and entwine your bodies together. Dancing helps to keep romance alive and it is fun and a way for couples to positively connect with one another.

There are things that you can do to be instantly more attractive to men. Some of these secrets involve the way you dress and apply your makeup, some involve the type of scent that you use and how you apply it and some involve more in depth seduction techniques and body language.

New Pheromone Additive (NPA) NPA is one of the most effective pheromone products on the market. It should to be added to favorite colognes or after shaves because it is very concentrated. NPA contains androstenone. It has an unpleasant pheromone smell. Recommended for more experienced users.

If you live in the United States, for example, and you want to attract a man you can quite reasonably use: - eye flirtation - the lip lick - crossing and uncrossing your legs

Attracting and seducing men is not as difficult as many of us make it out to be. As women, we naturally send out signals. The key is to know when to send them out and which ones to use. Watch any movie and the woman will show her interest in her man in several ways - meeting his eyes, leaning in to hear what he is saying, licking her lips, crossing her legs, twirling her hair around her finger, etc.. We do this naturally, even unconsciously.

Generally speaking, we select partners that are roughly similar to our own level of 'reproductive attractiveness' (measured in the wide sense). This means that it is not only the most 'attractive' individuals who manage to form partnerships - there is someone for everyone.

On an unconscious biological level we are given hidden attractors like pheromones and subtle physiological changes, like dilated pupils, the swelling of your lower lip and for men more obvious changes. We are also hard wired to know how to flirt.

There are more and more forums for finding love including internet, speed-dating, lonely-hearts columns and match-making services. There have been many success stories linked with these platforms and they are drawing a wide audience. They are effective in part because they exclude individuals who are not looking for romance. The drawbacks can be that we don't have time to see the individual in roles other than as a 'potential date'. Also, increasingly relationships begin in the virtual sphere (online, SMS texts) which can remove some of the depth of a real relationship including the pain of being rejected. For clients in therapy who are considering more traditional meeting grounds, we explore options such as taking up hobbies, playing sports, joining clubs or organizing friendly dinner parties (perhaps asking friends to bring a single friend). These activities are rewarding in their own right, and carry the bonus of forming friendships and partnerships.

Attracting a man is never as difficult as we make it out to be. You are born with the knowledge of how to give off the right signals. Let go of your shyness, practice and suddenly you will realize how natural flirting and attracting men can be.

Scent is very romantic so wear some for her and she in turn should wear some for you. Everyone likes to smell great and smell works on the pheromones of our system to make us even more attractive to our significant other. Ladies spritz a touch of your favorite fragrance on your pillow so he smells your scent as he sleeps. Or write him a romantic note and spray a touch of your perfume on it and slip it into the pocket of his jacket of his briefcase. Talk about a touch of romance that will stay with him all day long until he sees you again.

Everyone likes romance, don't they? When we think of a romantic date we conjure up images of moonlight, fine wine, flowers, chocolates, candlelight dinners and dancing close under the stars. Are there ways to help keep that romance and magic alive as a relationship progresses? Certainly there are. Let us take a look at ways to do just that.

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- a husky laugh - biting your lower lip as you look him in the eyes - the added use of purchased pheromones - padded bras - form fitting outfits

An available person is likely to send out the right signals when they are self-contented. It is a clich??, but a relevant one - when we can accept and love ourselves, we are in a good position to be accepted and loved by another. Inner confidence makes itself visible to potential partners. It is more convincing than 'fake' confidence (though sometimes in imagining ourselves confident, we can become it). This is why many happily committed individuals can be so appealing to others.

If you want to seduce men you must first be convinced that you are seductive. You must be absolutely convinced that you are the most beautiful woman out there. Now I can almost hear some of you saying," Yeah, right." Many of you probably believe that you must be a certain weight, height, etc to get the man of your dreams.

Various factors can be at play during the initial attraction. Sometimes it begins as physical impulse - pheromones doing their work - and sometimes it starts as an emotional connection first. Usually it involves an implicit assessment of the other's suitability as a potential mate (genetic donor) and/or a long-term partner (protector of self and of future offspring). This entails a complex interplay of observation (often matching them up to our ideal, or even setting them up as an ideal), reaction (via chemicals and body language) and interaction.

Do not just eat dinner together, instead turn it into a romantic dining experience. It has been said that it is "mood, not food that sets a romantic scene." You do not need to spend a lot of money for this one. Whether you are cooking a meal or ordering take out, put some fresh cut flowers in a vase, even if they come from your own yard, and then dim the lights, light some candles, pour some wine and enjoy a romantic meal together. Or maybe even cuddle up on the couch together with a pizza and watch one of your favorite romantic movies. Sharing a tub of ice cream is always a tasty way to be romantic together.

Read sexy literature to each other in bed or when you are cuddled up together on the couch. Take turns being the narrator and if asked to reread a particularly erotic scene do so willingly. Fiction can be very romantic if you choose the right books to read. Both the reading and the listening can be very romantic for both parties. Women in particular enjoy the sound of their lover's voice as he reads steamy fiction to her in a romantic setting.

The key to knowing how and when to use your attraction signals lies in examining your societies rules ( ex. interoffice romance is usually a no no) and working within their parameters.

Establish a secret word or a secret phrase between the two of you and decide that every time the word is spoken between you, you will share a passionate kiss or a gentle touch. The word might be one that holds a special meaning for the two of you or maybe choose a word that is sexy.

There are many pheromone colognes and oils being sold today on the Internet. Here are five most popular pheromone products: Chikara Cologne Originally named Chikara 7, after the number of pheromone compounds, this product contains the three pheromones found in most pheromone products: androstenol, androstenone and androsterone, as well as four new ingredients never before used in perfumery. The total guaranteed pheromone content per bottle is 10 mg. Chikara is great on it's own, but it can also be combined with other products, especially those with more androstenone. This product is also available in gel packs.

Liquid Trust Liquid Trust contains oxytocin - hormone that controls the level of trust in people. Oxytocin makes people more willing to bond with others. Liquid Trust Body Spray is created to increase trust in the wearer. This product is applied every morning after showering along with a favorite cologne or perfume.

Ideas about compatibility include 'opposites attract' and 'like-minded attract'. There seems to be clinical support for both positions. On the one hand we may be drawn to individuals who have characteristics we lack. They may reflect our shadow side - the elements that reside within us but which we refuse to acknowledge. They may also balance or complement our personalities. Some examples of differences include highly-driven v. relaxed, artistic v. scientific, sporty v. sedate and introverted v. extroverted. On the other hand, like-minded individuals may connect well because it widens the field of interaction, for example sports lovers can play and watch games together, and extroverts can socialize happily. What seems important in either of these positions is that the underlying core values are congruent. Ethical and social ideals tend to be matched in solid partnerships.

Your look is a very small part of your whole seduction package. A truly seductive woman has many tools in her arsenal. She knows how to get his interest and to keep it focused on her alone. She knows how to get a man to cross a room just to speak to her, and how to get him to call her that night. Before she leaves her home to go out, she is confident of how the evening will end. Part of this is confidence, gained from living the part of seduction diva, and part of it is the use of visualization techniques.The good news is that all of these techniques can be taught.

When we allow ourselves these instincts kick in. Women automatically know to cross and uncross their legs, play with their hair, flirt with our eyes. No one took us aside and taught a class on it.

Because of different societal rules, many of our instincts have been suppressed. In certain cultures it is perfectly natural to walk around bare breasted, yet in others you can get arrested for this type of behavior.

- jewelry placed in eye catching areas ( ex. a carefully hung necklace to bring his eyes to your cleavage) - the hair toss - playing with your hair


Scent of Eros


This product contains androstenol and androsterone. It is popular among younger people. Androstenol is a unisex pheromone that signals youth and it is useful for breaking the ice and getting conversations going. Androsterone is a masculine pheromone. Some people say that Scent of Eros can only get you friends, but this depends on your attitude and the way you use it.



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