8/18/2018

Break it to Me Gently: How to Break Up With Someone as Painlessly as Possible 

To put it bluntlyIm going to be frank, nobody likes being dumped and few of us take pleasure in being the "dumper" either. The end of any relationship, often inspite of its length, will be a traumatic time for both parties involved where your emotions run rampant. Understanding, compassion, patience and especially, honesty, are the key factors in any successful break up, if there even is such a thing. You must learn how to let go of any relationship that you no longer wish to take part in, while preserving your dignity along with theirs.
 




We have to be very flexible when talking to children about make your own pheromones. They seem to interpret things in a different way from the way we see things!


So what do you do? Put some relaxing scents on first like almond oil or rose. Once she's had a whiff of these scents and begins to relax, she'll be more open to idea of having sex with you.

Well, that may seem a lone way off yet so for now, if you see someone nursing or know of a relative who is, better get your woman near her!

Recent Research Reveals... Breast Milk as an Aphrodisiac?!? Actually, it's not breast milk per se but the scent given off by someone nursing. According to Martha McClintock, a professor of psychology at the University of Chicago, chemicals found in the sweat of breast-feeding mothers increased sexual desire in other women! This finding is now spurring discussion on how this 'chemical' can be harnessed to create a 'desire-inducing' drug for women!

Now, with her body soft, wet and relaxed, her mind taking in the love-inducing smells and you feeding her with chocolates... this can only lead to one thing!

You almost have to have thick skin when you start posting your profile on online dating sites because it can sometimes cause people to be less sensitive than they would be if you'd met them in person.

Avoidance isn't the Answer There are some people, cowards, if you will, who choose to end a relationship by doing nothing at all. Going out of their way to avoid the other person, not returning phone calls or e-mails and simply dropping from sight, are all common methods of ending a relationship by taking the easy way out. This leaves a host of unanswered questions for the other party, not to mention absolutely no closure whatsoever.

Androstenone pheromone is not the same as androstenol. Androstenol is produced by fresh male sweat, and is relatively attractive to women. The other pheromone, androstenone is produced by male sweat, when that sweat becomes less fresh - after exposure to oxygen. Androstenone is highly unpleasant to women, except during ovulation, when female response to this pheromone changes to "neutral". Therefore, the sweaty macho-man is likely to be unattractive to most women.

You might even have the guts to give match-making a shot and post your profile. Then find yourself frustrated when others turn you down because you don't live up to their demands, expectations, or desires right off the bat.

The above information is supplied of course with the assumption that the relationship is deserving of at least some of the common courtesies that are outlined here. We all know of people who has done something terrible or who isnt worth the effort of striving for an amicable break-up. In either case it's you who will feel better if you handle the situation with as much honesty, dignity and maturity as possible.

So who do you think the blindfolded sexy woman chose as a date? The midget with the aftershave cologne! Initially, you would think here that aphrodisiac scents don't work. If it did, then she should have chosen the guy with pheromones sprayed on him. But if you think about it a bit more... you realize that SCENT does influence how a woman reacts to you! She chose the midget because she can only smell the men. Otherwise, she would have chosen the sexy hunk that smelled like sweat.

Be as Honest as the Day is Long This isn't a trite clich; but rather it's a clich that offers words to live by on a multitude of levels. Lies are insidious in that they must be fed by more even lies in order to be successful. Unless you plan on carrying around a notebook to keep track of all your fibs, white lies and down right untruths, it's best to just live your life honestly, which is after all, the best policy.

So don't completely disregard the power of scents as an aphrodisiac. Just don't choose one that's pheromones-based! How to Use the Power of Scent If you want to aid your sexual appeal with scents, then I suggest you pay close attention to what your woman likes. For example, if she's into lavender and vanilla-scents then go for an aftershave with a tinge of these scents. You can also light some vanilla candles or put some lavender oil on a scent burner so that your living room (or any room for that matter) brings her to a sexy state right away.

And here's another thing you can do: bake pumpkin pie! According to research, the smell of pumpkin pie increases blood flow to a woman's vagina. Don't know how to make pumpkin pie? Just buy a ready-made one and put it in the oven just before your woman arrives. This will make the whole room (or house) smell like pumpkin pie and this will help her get the 'juices' flowing!

Androstenol, which appears in fresh sweat, is disintegrated by bacteria in about 15 to 20 minutes. This pheromone, which reported by women to be sweet-smelling, is also called the "pillow-talk pheromone", because women are exposed to it immediately after love making during the cuddling phase.

Do you know the show Brainiac? It's a show in the UK that basically puts to the test everyday 'science' stuff like testing how far a shopping cart will go if a tank of CO2 is attached to it. Hilarious!

Do you really want someone who has essential qualities in a mate, or is it preferable to find someone who is open to loving you exactly as you are? The dismissing process can be abrupt and blunt, so don't let it hurt your feelings if someone says, "Thanks but no thanks" without giving you a shot. This is often only because people are joining dating sites to cater to their dilemma of limited time to spend searching for a mate.

The key is to work based on what she already likes. One of my male clients once bought strawberry-scented massage oil because he THOUGHT his woman liked it. (Somehow, he equates strawberry scents as liked by ALL women.) He was dead wrong. She hated it. She said it smelled way too sweet and gave her a headache. He kissed his chances for sex that night for sure!

We have to be very flexible when talking to children about make your own pheromones. They seem to interpret things in a different way from the way we see things!



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According to some surveys, about 50% of adult humans can't detect androstenone, unless the concentration is extremely high. Those who can detect androstenone say that its smell is not very pleasant. Androstenone is the main pheromone that men unknowingly secrete that attract women. Both men and women secrete pheromones when they sweat. However, since our body naturally only secretes small amounts of pheromones, they are effective for only a brief amount of time. The good news is that scientists have succeeded in identifying and synthesizing both androstenone and androstenol in the laboratory.

Do Unto Others Put the shoe on the other foot, if you will, for just a moment and think of how you'd want to be treated if you in fact were the "dumpee" in this scenario instead. Respect the person's privacy after ending the relationship as well; anything told to you in confidence should remain that way whether you're together or not. After all, you'd want it to work the same in reverse.

You shouldn't lower your expectations, but anyone who has a set list of demands before dating someone will surely find themselves disappointed. If you met Mr. or Ms. Right on the street, you wouldn't have a tip sheet of their profile before you said "hi" and discovered the spark underlying your conversations. Yet for some reason, some people reserve the right to refuse an online prospect if their list of characteristics isn't checked off perfectly first.

So here's my great idea: bake or make pumpkin pie and make sure the whole house smells like it. Then prepare a nice, warm bath with vanilla or lavender oil burning on the scent burner. (Don't use too many different oils! You'll give each other a headache if you do.) Put a small plate of chocolate bonbons (another aphrodisiac!) on the side of the tub and - if budget permits - a small, chilled bottle of bubbly on the side.

Some men and women get intimidated reading other people's online profiles. That intimidation factor prevents them from putting their profile online because they fear appearing inadequate. It's Saturday night and you're stuck at home with a bad book because you don't feel like you measure up to the rest of the online dating pool.

In some ways, people believe online dating strips the first impressions away because you can't see the subtleties that often attract us to our mates. But look past the list of "requirements". With a little bit of effort and courage on your part you could very well find that online dating gives you a chance to learn something about the person's personality and feel comfortable before you take the leap into real life dating.

Sometimes people put things in their profile list of Must-Haves that they don't really mean. For instance, a man might add that his mates must look like a supermodel, when what he really means is he needs to have an attraction. It's doubtful he's been in the company of many supermodels, and surely he's been attracted to ordinary women in his life! It might also be a way of telling people that they are really nervous about the process. Maybe the other party is every bit as nervous and insecure about online dating as you are.

Androstenone and androstenol are both testosterone-linked pheromones. Some people say that androstenone is stronger "macho" pheromone that signals a dominant and aggressive personality, while androstenol signals friendliness.

Avoid trite clichs What could be worse than the "It wasn't you, it was me" statement? No one believes that, and frankly it's insulting and really makes no sense. Since you aren't breaking up with yourself, how could it not have had something to do with the other person? Avoid using these lines as easy ways out since you know they don't really fool anyone. At least put forth some minimal effort and offer some sort of an explanation if the break-up is sudden.

So first up was a really geeky looking guy, on whom the produces of the show sprayed pheromone scent on. The second guy was a midget who had on expensive aftershave cologne. The last guy was a sexy hunk(!) but he had to do some push ups and jumping jacks so that he gets the smell of 'sweat'.

Anyway, what caught my attention was this test they did on pheromones, a known aphrodisiac scent. The test included a very sexy woman who was blindfolded. She then had to 'smell' three men and decide who she wants to date that night. The goal of the test was to determine if indeed pheromones will work.

Believe it or not, thousands of people are finding that one true love on the Internet. It's worth learning the ropes before you sign up at any dating site so that you'll know the game before you go in. You also need to learn not to get upset if you run into a few shallow people here and there.

Don't Become a Puppeteer Worse than silly clichs and excuses are when you're strung along like a puppet for months or even years on end while the other person decides on how to end it. Imagine how they'd feel knowing you wanted it over for a while now but just didn't have the guts or the gumption to actually do it? Drawing things out only create drama and even more hurt feelings. Quick and painless is always better than a slow, agonizing end to a relationship that's long been over.

You should also take into consideration what mood or time of day you want to put your aphrodisiac scents to work. For example, if she's just coming home from work, then she probably wouldn't even think of hopping directly into mad and having hot, wild sex with you. She's just too tired!


Some men produce more natural pheromones than others, which is why you can see some men who are not handsome, but have no problems in attracting and seducing the most beautiful women.



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